Senior Goodbye: Making the best version of me

Matthew Piccirillo, Staff Writer • May 14, 2020

Piccirillo along with juniors Triton Freels and Hayes Anderson lead the student section as part of the Dirty Drumline at the Pink Out football game.

After spending four years at this school, I can tell you I am a completely different person from that very first day I walked in during August of 2016. Although it took me a while to find my true identity, I realized that the saying we all hear growing up is a lot more meaningful than we know.

“Do what you want, and not what others expect.”

I walked into high school as an immature 15 year old who had no idea what he wanted to do with his life. That was OK though, because I still had four years to start planning my path out. To be honest, I was more worried about how the older kids or the “cooler” kids thought of me than how the people who truly liked me thought of me. I played varsity baseball freshman year, and that is when I truly cared what the upperclassman thought of me. I started to think I was “all that,” and so much cooler than other kids.

As I went through sophomore and junior year, still thinking I had to be the coolest version of myself for everyone else besides me, I realized I was not truly enjoying my time 100% in high school. I will still be doing things I loved like baseball, PALS, hanging out with my friends, and everything still the same. I just never really found natural happiness, and I realized it was because of how I perceived things rather than what I was doing. From that day on I was myself no matter what. I was loud, spontaneous, and cared about the people I truly liked. I knew this was the right thing to do, I needed to not let anyone’s opinions or thoughts about me affect my attitude. I wanted to have the best experience for the rest of high school that I could.

Seniors Nick Dodda and Matt Piccirillo, junior Hayes Anderson and sophomore Jake Piccirillo perform the Mean Girls version of “Jingle Bell Rock’ during the 2019 Mr. Lovejoy competition(Kelsey Carroll)

Skip ahead to my last year of high school, and as I look back on the time that we had as seniors, and I realize I am a completely different person–for the better. I wore a skirt and a tank top during the Mr. Lovejoy competition, I wore overalls to every single football game while losing my voice, I truly listened to the people around me, and I matured for the betterment of myself. Four years ago I would never have stood up on a stage in front of hundreds of people in a skirt dancing to jingle bell rock because people would have told me that is weird or that it is not cool. I learned to do stuff that I truly enjoy, and what my true friends enjoy.

I have met many different friends throughout high school, meeting different types of people in AP classes, on the baseball field, in the student section, in PALS, or anything I have done during high school. There have been very few people I have remained friends with all four years of high school, and there are people who have just been my friends for a year or two. Finding “my group” was never easy for me. However, these people I have been around in high school, the ones that truly have impacted my life for the better are the ones that have encouraged me to be myself and do the things that make me happy, like starting a podcast. I learned that the people I surrounded myself with not only were the people I made memories with, but the people who shaped me as a person. It might have taken some time to find the right people, or the combination of the right people of friends from the past and new friends, but I know that every person I have been friends with in high school has taught me something.

I know now that what I do should only matter to the people I care about and myself. Not the cooler, older people, I thought I wanted to be friends with. From now on, I will always be myself and surround myself with the people who truly want the best version of me.

I can say I will be walking out of high school a much better man than when I walked into it. I will be walking out of Lovejoy as a mature 18 year old who knows how to live his life to succeed going down the right path.

About the Contributors

Matthew Piccirillo, Staff Writer

In hopes of bringing a lively personality to The Red Ledger, Matthew Piccirillo decided to join staff for his senior year. Filled with laughs and smiles in the classroom and on the baseball field, Piccirillo is excited to bring that type of energy to the award winning newsroom while being under the legendary Benjamin Nopper’s wing. Although Matthew will mainly be a sports writer throughout the year, he hopes to be apart of some of the humorous segments TRL has in store for the school year. He has a twin sister Emily along with two younger brothers Jake (sophomore) and Benjamin (seventh Grade). Along with baseball, Matt is a proud member of the Dirty Drumline, YMSL, PALS, and THE National Honor Society.

Kelsey Carroll, Section Editor

Senior Kelsey Carroll has never owned a dog or a cat, but she’s the proud caretaker of two mini cacti living their life on her windowsill, and she thinks that’s just enough. She never forgets to water them weekly, as she’s a fond planner user who prides herself on writing down just about any task, even “write staff bio,” which she just proudly accomplished. When she’s not strumming twangy ukulele chords in her bedroom on the weekends or attempting to play a cello countermelody in class during the week, Kelsey can be found dancing to whatever plays in her earbuds (which are constantly on her) while editing photos until her laptop battery dies each night. Her days start before the sun’s up at swim team, and end with her furiously deciding which of her 16 pairs of Harry Potter socks to wear the next day. Whether she’s shooting sideline photos and dodging officials on the football field, or manning a jumbotron camera for the fans to see, Kelsey loves to be involved in any visual coverage she can get her hands on. Although she’s soft spoken, Kelsey hopes to share stories through her photos and writing as she tackles her roles as photographer, community editor, and social media editor during her fourth and final year on staff.