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Senior goodbye: Scream your heart out

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Shae Daugherty
“There isn’t one path to having a fulfilling high school career and senior year. There’s so many opportunities at Lovejoy that have the capacity to change your life, but it’s up to you to not only find the right combination for you, but to also pour your hours and effort into them.”

My brother, Matt, seemed to embody the ideal high school senior: unashamed eccentricity that only comes when you no longer have anything to prove to your peers. Dressed only in overalls, he pounded on trash cans at football games as a part of the first iteration of the Dirty Drumline. He sung “Let it Go” in a high-pitched voice at the Mr. Lovejoy pageant.

And he was never too “cool” to throw himself completely into anything he was a part of, whether that was the student section, the varsity soccer team, Relay for Life or the newspaper.

I was a freshman, sitting at the top of the student section, when Matt was screaming till he lost his voice at football games. Despite moving to Lovejoy from Pennsylvania in sixth grade, I still didn’t feel at home in my new school district.

I was a long ways away from not caring what my peers thought about me, but I still admired from afar my brother’s carefree attitude about his senior year. I hoped that in three years I would take the same approach he did.

Looking back on it now, I followed Matt’s path through high school and senior year almost to a T: I was a part of the varsity soccer team and newspaper, I was a Dirty Drummer, I participated in Mr. Lovejoy, I helped organize Relay for Life, and now I’m headed to the same college as him at the University of Georgia.

I understand this makes me look like the copycat little brother almost to a freakish extent, but Matt has always been my biggest role model. My brother showed me just how fun and fulfilling high school, and specifically senior year, could be.

And on that note I’m forever grateful for Matt because my senior year has been even better than I could have ever imagined when I was a freshman.

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I can proudly say that I’ve thrown everything I have into the extracurriculars and organizations that I’ve been a part of. That, in itself, is a satisfying accomplishment. But what is more amazing is that I have received even more from these activities in return.

Anytime I lost my voice from cheering on the Leopards was forever worth seeing an opposing volleyball player rattled by our chants.

Anytime I stayed late after school working on the newspaper was forever worth hearing how one of our pieces affected someone in our community positively.

Anytime I was exhausted from two soccer games a week during the season was forever worth rushing the field after an overtime win.

And anytime I was ever annoyed by a task from school was forever worth the relationships I’ve made at the Lovejoy that continue to bring happiness to my life every day.

Despite the hours I’ve poured into this school and its extracurriculars, it still doesn’t seem fair how much experience, memories, enlightenment, fulfillment, happiness I’ve received in return

***

I can confidently say that my senior year has been the best year of my life because of the activities I’ve been a part of and the relationships I’ve made. But I think it is important to note that I wouldn’t have had close to the senior experience I did unless I gave every ounce of effort to those activities and relationships.

There isn’t one path to having a fulfilling high school career and senior year. There’s so many opportunities at Lovejoy that have the capacity to change your life, but it’s up to you to not only find the right combination for you, but to also pour your hours and effort into them.

You can scream your heart out at football games. You can act your heart out. Sing your heart out. Play your heart out. Draw/paint/sculpt your heart out. Debate your heart out. Code your heart out. Volunteer your heart out. Protest your heart out. Speak your heart out (in different languages). Dance your heart out. Or you can find a new way at the school to get your heart out.

You can choose any mix of these, but there’s only one level of effort you can give if you want your Lovejoy career to be something special.

My brother modeled for me his senior year how important it is to care about the organizations you are a part of and not about what people will think. As far as my legacy at Lovejoy is concerned, I can only hope I was able to show someone how to enjoy every bit of high school and senior year, just as my brother did for me.

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Nick Smith, TRL Editor-in-Chief
Nick Smith is a senior and has held a US citizenship for 17 years, but is still confused as to why he still doesn't qualify for senior citizen discounts. Nick spends his days either hanging out with friends or living in what he calls his second home, but everyone else just calls the newspaper room. He somehow swung it with the counselors to have three periods of newspaper this year, and now seeks to push his luck by requesting a bed to be furnished in the newspaper room for his afternoon naps. In addition to his duties with The Red Ledger, Nick serves as the self-titled “Chief Player Motivator” for the varsity soccer team. Nick draws his inspiration for his fiery, sometimes over the top speeches from the movie-speech greats: Al Pacino in Any Given Sunday, Matthew McConaughey in We Are Marshall, and of course Denzel Washington in Remember The Titans. This will be Nick’s third year as a part of The Red Ledger staff and first as an Editor-In-Chief. Alongside his fellow EICs Hannah and MC, Nick hopes to further the legacy of The Red Ledger and work to make newspaper the best part of each and every staffers’ day.
Shae Daugherty, Section Editor
It’s Daug·herty, /Dortee/, Daugherty. It’s not that hard. Coaches never get it wrong, and that may have been what drove her to sports photography in the first place. When she isn’t leaving sticky notes all over the newsroom, she’s in the heart of the sideline with a few cameras and a small bag of SD cards. She spends nearly all her time with the Sideline Team, causing trouble or residing in the studio. Her favorite part of football season is the two hours before any game, when the photographers go to dinner, or at least they try to. Shae’s sustained many injuries during her five year run as a sports photographer due to her inability to see players charging at her. Ironically, the Photo Editor is legally blind, and will crack numerous blind jokes, at the disapproval of one Benjamin Nopper. Her goal this year is for The Red Ledger to finally win the Pacemaker, and nothing will stand in her way. Coming in right at 5’10”, she certainly doesn’t need heels, but she wouldn’t be caught dead without them. Let her leave you with this one piece of advice–keep your heels, head and standards high.

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