Sometimes students get behind in school for a variety of reasons, but are too afraid to tell their teachers, in fear that they will not understand or help the student succeed. We often forget that shockingly, teachers are humans too. They have been in our shoes once, and most likely can relate to a situation that you thought no one could understand.

Talking with a teacher helps tremendously, not matter what the situation is. Just be open with the teacher because they have no idea what is going on in your life, and have no explanations for a change in grade or behaviour.

Even though it might not be something we want to admit, sometimes it’s okay to have conversations with teachers. I know we have to be careful not to be labeled a “teacher’s pet”, but if done correctly, you will gain a beneficial advantage by consulting with your teacher.

Recently, my grades in school have plummeted to a point of major concern from my teachers. Hesitant to talk to my teachers, I just kept my head down and avoided direct eye contact. This lasted for about two weeks, until I finally realized that the only thing that I could do next was to just talk with my teachers.  Resorting to my last choice, I confronted my teachers and vaguely explained my situation. My teachers were overwhelmingly understanding and flexible, letting me turn in missing assignments without all of the penalties and consequences.

What I realized is that by consulting with my teachers actually put me at ease. It might be embarrassing, but it’s worth it if you are truly struggling. If this happens to you, and you care about your grades, then I highly advise you talk to your teacher. They won’t think you care unless you tell them you do. And most likely the teacher will be very accommodating and will help you raise your grade as much as you are willing to work. Most teachers you will have in your lifetime will have your best interest in mind. They are there to teach you and help you obtain a more successful future, not to punish you for missing work.

Giving excuses to the teacher about whatever project you slacked off on is not an acceptable alternative to receive extra time or points. If you were too lazy to do something, that’s on you and you only, don’t blame something else for your own mistakes.

There is a very fuzzy line that separates excuses from valid explanations when it comes to talking to your teacher. The official decision of what you classify your statement ultimately comes down to you. It’s better to be honest with yourself, than to stretch the truth to make your situation seem more appealing. You are your biggest critique, and have final judgement over tricky situations, so be sure to be honest and not cheat the system.